Shared Parenting Plans: What Florida Families Need to Know
Florida law no longer uses the term "custody." Instead, when parents separate or divorce, the court requires a parenting plan that establishes time-sharing and decision-making responsibility for minor children. Understanding how these plans work can make a difficult transition much less stressful for your whole family.
What Is a Parenting Plan?
A parenting plan is a written agreement — either negotiated by the parents or ordered by the court — that governs how children will be raised after their parents separate. Florida law requires every parenting plan to address:
- A time-sharing schedule, including regular weekly time, holidays, school breaks, and special occasions
- How parental responsibility (decision-making authority) will be divided for education, healthcare, and religious upbringing
- Which parent will handle day-to-day decisions when the child is in their care
- How the parents will communicate about the children going forward
- Transportation arrangements for exchanges
Shared Parental Responsibility Is the Starting Point
Florida law presumes that shared parental responsibility — both parents jointly making major decisions for the child — is in the child's best interest. This does not necessarily mean an equal time-sharing split; it means both parents have a voice in important decisions, even if one parent has the children more often.
In limited circumstances, such as documented abuse, substance abuse, or a parent's inability to safely make decisions, a court may award sole parental responsibility to one parent.
Factors Courts Consider
When parents can't agree, Florida courts evaluate the "best interests of the child" using a list of statutory factors, including:
- Each parent's willingness to encourage a close relationship between the child and the other parent
- The demonstrated capacity of each parent to be involved in the child's school and extracurricular activities
- The geographic viability of the parenting plan, including the effect on the child of changing schools
- Each parent's moral fitness and mental and physical health
- The child's own preference, depending on age and maturity
- Evidence of domestic violence, abuse, or neglect
Creating a Plan That Actually Works
The best parenting plans are specific enough to prevent future conflict but flexible enough to accommodate real life. We often see disputes arise later not because parents disagreed on the big picture, but because a plan was vague about pickup times, holiday rotations, or how decisions about extracurriculars get made. Thoughtful, detailed drafting up front saves families from returning to court down the road.
Mediation Can Help
Because Florida courts favor parents reaching their own agreements when possible, mediation is often required — and frequently successful — in resolving time-sharing disputes without a contested trial. Attorney Thomas Saxey is a Florida Supreme Court Certified Family Mediator, giving him a unique perspective on how to negotiate parenting plans that hold up over time.
Modifying an Existing Plan
Life changes — a job relocation, a change in a child's needs, or a shift in a parent's circumstances may justify modifying an existing plan. Florida law requires a showing of a "substantial, material, and unanticipated change in circumstances" to revisit a final parenting plan, so it's worth discussing your situation with an attorney before filing.
We're Here to Help
Whether you're establishing a parenting plan for the first time or need to modify one that no longer fits your family, Saxey Law PLLC brings both legal skill and mediation experience to the table. Contact us at (850) 684-4432 or thomas@saxeylaw.com to discuss your situation.
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